Flying with Children: Brilliant Tips for Relaxed Flights

Flying with children can sometimes feel like a small expedition – but with the right attitude and a few tried-and-tested tricks, the journey becomes more relaxed for everyone. Whether you’re boarding for the first time with a baby or exploring the world with a lively toddler, the following tips will help you be well prepared and enjoy your time in the air.

Before departure: planning is half the battle

Before you check out the current flight deals, you should think about which flight times suit your family best. Night flights can be ideal for babies, as they often sleep, while a morning flight is better for toddlers to keep their midday nap on board. If possible, choose direct flights to avoid the stress of transferring. And remember: many airlines offer family-friendly services such as priority boarding or special children’s menus – just ask.

The right equipment for your carry-on

Flying with children means being well packed. In your carry-on, you should have everything you need for the first few hours within easy reach: nappies, wet wipes, a change of clothes for the child (and maybe for you too), snacks, drinking bottles, dummies or a cuddly toy. Also think about light entertainment: a few small books, stickers or a new little toy surprise can work wonders.

What you should pack specifically for babies

• Enough nappies and wet wipes for the flight duration plus a spare
• A light blanket or scarf to cover up when breastfeeding or feeding
• Bottles or a nursing pillow if you’re not breastfeeding
• A carrier or sling in case the baby wants to be carried

For toddlers: entertainment and comfort

• Snacks in resealable containers (grapes, rice cakes, fruit)
• A favourite toy or cuddly toy as a source of comfort
• Colouring book and washable pens
• Children’s headphones to listen to audio plays or watch films

At the airport: avoid stress with these tricks

Allow extra time at the airport. Flying with children often means everything takes a little longer. Use the family lanes at security control, which are available at many German airports. If you’re travelling with a pushchair: you can usually take it up to the gate and hand it in there – but check with your airline in advance. One tip: change the nappy once more right before boarding, because the on-board toilet is cramped.

On board: relaxed take-off and landing

During take-off and landing, pressure equalisation can be unpleasant. Give your baby or toddler something to suck or chew on: breastfeeding, a bottle, a dummy or a teething biscuit all help. For toddlers, drinking straws or a small snack are also ideal. Make sure you offer plenty of fluids during the flight, as the cabin air is dry.

Choosing the right seat

If possible, reserve seats with more legroom or an aisle seat so you can get up quickly if the child becomes restless. With some airlines you can also reserve a bassinet seat for babies – that’s a big relief, especially on long-haul flights. Ask at check-in whether you can board earlier with a child.

Flying with children: how to keep the mood good

Flying with children requires flexibility. Plan breaks, move around the aisle with the child when permitted, and stay calm yourself – children sense your tension. If you notice your child is overwhelmed, a quiet song, a story or simply your closeness often helps. And remember: other passengers are usually understanding when they see you’re taking care of things.

Health and well-being on board

Make sure your child wears comfortable clothing during the flight that’s easy to put on and take off. On long-haul flights, it’s important to get up and move regularly to reduce the risk of thrombosis – this also applies to the little passengers. Breastfeeding mothers should drink plenty of water. If you have questions about your child’s health before travelling, consult your paediatrician.

Entry requirements and documents

For trips abroad, your child needs their own travel documents. Check with the Foreign Office for the current entry requirements, as different rules may apply depending on the country, for example for single parents travelling with a child or for the consent of the other parent. Don’t forget to store the documents within easy reach in your carry-on.

After the flight: arrive relaxed

After landing, you should take your time to arrive. Perhaps wait until the rows have emptied to disembark stress-free. If you handed in a pushchair at the gate, it’s often already waiting at the exit. For onward travel by train or hire car: allow enough buffer time. And then it’s time to enjoy your holiday! Why not also look for beach deals or city breaks for your next family trip.

Frequently asked questions

How old does my baby need to be to fly?

Most airlines allow babies to fly from the age of 2 weeks; stricter rules may apply for premature babies. It’s best to check directly with your airline and your paediatrician.

What can I do about ear pain in my child?

Give your child something to suck or chew on during take-off and landing, such as breastfeeding, a bottle, a dummy or a drink. This helps with pressure equalisation. For older children, you can also offer chewing gum.

Can I take baby food and milk in my carry-on?

Yes, baby food and milk for the amount needed during the flight are generally allowed, including quantities over 100 ml. However, security control may require a separate check. Check with your airport in advance.

Learn more: Flying with children on Wikipedia.